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Bahaya Pornografi Sesungguhnya Secara Detail yang Sangat Amat Perlu Anda Tahu!

Written by Khalid Abdullah

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Sering kita dengar kalau Bahaya Pornografi itu adalah merusak otak, mengacaukan pikiran, membuat malas. 

Just it ???

Ahhhhhh….. saya belum merasa belum puas dengan semua penjabaran itu. Saya butuh yang lebih ekstrim penjabarannya.

Setelah mencari – cari beberapa referensi dan mendengarkan ceramah orang, yang tak kunjung menghilangkan dahaga penasaran itu, Akhirnya saya sekarang tahu Bahayanya Pornografi Bagi Siapapun pecandunya! Dan sekarang saya ingin berbagi kepada anda.

Saya yakin penjabaran saya akan menjelaskan secara krusial, intinya bahaya pornografi itu apa ! Jadi saya mohon banget perhatian anda sebentar! Jadi kalau lagi chatting sambil ngakak-ngakak, lagi facebookan untuk ngomentarin status-status teman, lagi download lagu dan film, atau lagi ngeliat-ngeliat gambar…. Plise………. STOP dulu! Baca artikel ini sampai selesai. Baru anda boleh melanjutkan kegiatan anda tadi. Oke?

Kita Mulai !!!

Pada hari Jumat 1 Oktober 2010 saya mengikuti seminar sehari yand diadakan oleh Yayasan Kita & Buah Hati yang ” dikomandani ” Ibu Elly Risman ,Psi. Pembicaranya adalah : Ibu Elly Risman,Psi  dan Dr. Randall F. Hyde,Ph.D

Ibu Elly Risman,Psi adalah pakarnya parenting di Indonesai ini. Dr. Randall F. Hyde,Ph.D adalah seorang psikolog senior di negara Amerika sana.

Fotonya Dr. Randall F. Hyde,Ph.D yang diatas. Kalau Ibu Elly fotonya yang disamping kanan. Jangan ketuker 

Dia ( Dr. Randall F. Hyde,Ph.D ) berkata :

“Percayalah pornografi adalah suatu bencana yang kita sendiri ( maksudnya negara Amerika sendiri ) keteteran.”

“Negara kita dapat mempersiapkan perang, dengan senjata dan tentara. Negara kita bisa menghadapi penyakit dengan temuan obat – 0bat dengan penelitian ilmuwan kami.”

“Tapi untuk pornografi…percayalah…. pada awalnya kami tidak siap dan tidak tahu cara apa yang harus dilakukan untuk melawannya.”

Oia, merebaknya pornografi di Amerika pada saat sekarang, sudah jauh berkurang dibandingkan 20 tahun silam.

Ya ! anak – anak di Amerika sana serta remaja -remaja disana dilanda pornografi 20 tahun lalu. Waktu lagi parah – parahnya banget. Sekarang bisa dikatakan sudah sembuh untuk ukuran penyakit satu negara.

Kalau negera kita Indonesia, sekarang inilah yang lagi merebak – rebaknya!

“Maka dari itu saya datang kesini, karena saya ingin ikut dalam upaya pembersihan pornografi di negara kita ini. Karena negara kamipun pernah dilanda bencana ini. Dan itu sangat mengganggu. Dan syukurnya kami sudah melewati itu sekarang.”

Dia juga berkata :

“I love your country, I love your people”

( Saya sempat terharu mendengarnya )

2 detik kemudian saya tertawa, karena berikutnya dia mengatakan :

“I love your cendol too”

Di tubuh kita banyak hormon yang bekerja.

( Tenang bagi yang agak alergi dengan istilah biologi…. meskipun nanti ada istilah biologi, akan dijelaskan secara santai kok ^_^ )

Ada 4 hormon yang yang dirusak cara kerjanya. Hormon ini jika bekerja secara normal. Akan menguntungkan kita. Nah pornografi membuat ke – 4 hormon ini keluar secara berlebihan dan terus menerus.

Inilah “daging” dari artikel ini !

* Dopamine *

Kalau anda sedang kesusahan mengerjakan suatu soal matematika saat ujian, dateng telat, belom makan, eh pas datang ternyata soalnya susah banget… anda pasrah…. lunglai…. merasa bakal jeblok nilanya…. gara-gara tidak ada satupun soal yang bisa anda kerjakan…

Lagi frustasi frustasinya, tiba -tiba ketemu cara ngerjain soalnya,…..

YES !!!!!! I Got IT !!!!! Alhamdullillah !

Bagaimana perasaanya ???? Senang yang bukan main bukan ???!!!! Serasa puas campur bahagia !

Sepertu itulah efek hormon dopamine kalau lagi bekerja. Menimbulkan SENSASI Puas, senang , bahagia di dalam dada.

Eits… tunggu dulu…,

Efek dopamine ternyata menimbulkan peningkatan kebutuhan level.

Maksudnya gini… kalau kemaren anda puas dan loncat loncat kegirangan gara – gara mengerjakan soal anak TK, apakah saat besoknya anda mengerjakan soal yang sama anda merasa puas dan loncat loncat yang sama dengan yang anda lakukan kemaren ???

Tentu tidak ! Anda pasti butuh untuk bisa mengerjakan soal anak SD, baru loncat – loncat kegirangan lagi. Betul gak ???

Seperti itulah efek dari bekerjanya si dopamine.

NAHHHHH ! pornografi itu membuat si dopamine bekerja terus menerus ! sayangnya penyebab dia bekerja adalah karena pornografi !

Ilustrasi :

1. Pertama kali si Nyoman akan berteriak ” oh my god gambar apa sih tuh ! ” ( sambil tutup mata tapi agak direnggangin jarinya buat ngintip )

2. eh kemaren gambar apa sih … ? mengunjungi lagi situs yang menampilkan gambar perempuan memakai bikini tersebut. Dilihat terus….,

3. Besok – besoknya si Nyoman harus melihat perempuan bertelanjang dada agar bisa merasakan sensasi yang ” wuooowwww “

4. Besoknya tentu harus melihat yang lebih parah dari melihat perempuan bertelanjang dada. Bisa yang cuma pakai kancut doank atau langsung bugil.

Begitu seterusnya… dari melihat cewe bugil, melakukan seks, ….. lebih parah…, terus dan terus…,

Harus lebih parah atau minimalnya beda gambar, agar merasakan sensasi ” wuooowwww “.

Bisa dibayangkan kan , setelah puas melihat gambar – gambar yang terparah sekalipun…apa yang harus dilakukan agar merasakan sensasi ” wuooowwww ” ???

Nonton videonya beneran donk ! Lalu seterus dan seterusnya ? Melakukan seks beneran donk  ! Bener banget !

Waktu melakukan seks juga begitu…. karena dari awalnya dilandaskan si dopamine tadi, maka akan beda dengan seks yang dilakukan orang normal yang biasa.

Dia selalu butuh teknik seks yang baru, baru dan baru, kalau perlu yang gak normal dan aneh.

Makanya kalau para pelaku seks yang melakukan seks gara – gara pertamanya dia terpincut pornografi, akan butuh gaya yang baru dan menuju ke arah penyimpangan seksual.

Sampai jadi nyoba incest ( berhubungan dengan saudara sendiri ), berhubungan seks dengan binatang, pemerkosaan, penyiksaan dalam seks.

Hanya karena butuh utuk merasakan sensasi ” wuooowwww ” tersebut.

Mereka tahu itu salah, tapi tetap melakukannya.

Mereka tahu itu salah, tapi tidak bisa melawannya.

Itulah parahnya hormon dopamine yang dibikin bekerja secara terus menerus oleh pornografi !

* Neuropiniphrin *

Kalau seorang pebisnis sejati, otaknya dipenuhi dengan yang namanya peluang dan keuntungan.

Ngeliat usaha yang bisa dijadikan ladang uang, selalu dimanfaatkan dengan baik.

Instingnya ke bisniiiiis mulu !

Nah inilah yang terjadi juga terhadap para pecandu pornografi.

Otaknya selalu berputar – putar dengan yang namanya pornografi.

Ngeliat yang ngerangsang dikit, otak udah ngebayanginnya yang lain lain.

Kalau ada perempuan yang memakai baju seksi, mungkin orang normal hanya kan berkata ” perempuan itu seksi” . Tetapi kalau orang yang sudah kecanduan pornografi, akan berfikir, gimana ya rasanya bersetubuh dengan dia…, ( sambil ngiler diem diem bego gitu )

Lagi berdiri disamping perempuan. langsung otaknya ngeres dah ! padahala perempuannya biasa aja. gak ngedance, ngeliuk-liukin badan, apalagi striptise. Sama sekali enggak ! Tapi otaknya sudah yang gimanaaaa gitu.

Itulah yang dirasakan orang yang sudah berurusan dengan pornografi. Ngerusak otak !

Nah inilah yang sering digembor-gemborkan orang bahwa pornografi itu ngerusak otak. inilah yang diamaksudkan. Serign terbayang selalu.

Akibatnya tidak bisa berfikir jernih, males belajar, males mikir, males kretif. Karena otaknya sudah dipenuhi dengan daftar kosakata atau kejadian yang bisa otak dia sambung-sambungin dengan yang namanya seks.

Kerjaannya siapa ? kerjaannya hormon neorupiniphrin yang sudah disutradarai oleh pornografi.

* Serotonin *

Saat seorang perokok lagi stress, dia akan merokok.

Kenapa begitu ??? karena rokok adalah sesuatu yang bisa membuatnya senang… tentram…, damai,….. piss,…. ( itulah betapa shittnya rokok ! )

Itulah efek kerja dari hormon serotonin.

Membuat seseorang merasa nyaman saat hormon itu keluar.

Nah saat orang bersentuhan dengan yang namanya pornografi, hormon itupun keluar.

Fly…… lihat porno, gw fly gw tenang, gw oke…. piss man…..

Efeknya ????!!!!

setiap orang itu kesel… orang itu frustasi… orang itu sedih… orang itu kesepian… orang itu mengalamai hal yang menyulitkan dirinya…. dia akan lari ke pornografi ! Karena itu yang membuatnya tentram.

Sedih ya ??? yaiyalah…

Kalo  orang stress, pelariannya ke ibadah.. mantep !

Kalo pelariannya ke bermiditasi..keren !

Kalau pelariannya ke hang out bersama teman- teman atau kalau yang perempuan shooping ? Masih okelah. Lah kalau sebuah pelarian haruslah ke pornografi misalkan langsung ke warnet dan langsung searching xxx ??? yalkkk !

* Oksitosin *

Anda tahu kenapa seorang ibu dengan anak – anaknya ada ikatan batin ?

Karena hormon oksitosinlah jawabannya.

Saat seorang ibu melahirkan, hormon oksitisoin terpancar banjir keluar dari tubuhnya.

Nah efeknya adalah, dia mencintai sesuatu yang membuat orang tersebut mengeluarkan hormon oksitosin itu !

Karena si ibu itu jadi keluar hormon oksitosinnya, gara – gara anak yang dilahirkannya tersebut ! Maka dia akan jadi punya ikatan batin dengan anak tersebut !

Itulah sistem kerjanya si hormon okitosin.

Pornografi itu membuat hormon oksitosin bekerja secara terus menerus pada saat si orang tersebut mengakses pornografi.

Sudah tahu kan akibatnya jadi seperti apa ?

Dia menjadi terikat secara batin dengan pornografi tersebut.

Makanya yang kecanduan pornografi itu, ada rasa kangen, jika tidak melihat pornografi selama beberapa hari.

Jyaaaalllk cuih ! terikat batin dengan pornografi !

Apa yang bisa dibanggakan dengan terikatnya seseorang dengan pornografi ???

Itulah penjabaran saya tentang bahaya pornografi yang saya dapat dari Dr. Randall F. Hyde.

Semoga jelas…. semoga nancep. Semoga makin sadar kalau pornografi itu menyebabkan kerusakan otak secara permanen tapi perlahan. yaiyalah ! yang diserang otak !

Bagi yang baca ini setelah ingin memulai terjun di bidang pornografi, yah sebaiknya berhenti ya. Bagi yang sudah kecanduan dan merasa artikel ini ” kok kayaknya gw banget “, silahkan sadar dengan sesadar-sadarnya bahwa pornografi itu gak bagus frend!

Kecanduan pornografi sebenarnya sama dengan kecanduan narkoba. Kalau kencauan narkoba jelas keliatan parahnya. Kalau kecanduan pornografi tidak kelihatan secara fisik.

Tahu – tahu sudah bego aja tuh otak. Dan serasa tidak berguna yang namanya hidup.

Oia, terakhir nih….,

Saat sebelum seminar ini dimulai, saya diminta oleh Bu Elly Risman untuk melakukan hal ini!

Sampaikan apa yang kalian dapatkan selama seminar ini kepada minimal 3 orang. Dan katakan kepada orang yang anda sampaikan,  untuk menyampaikan kepada minimal 3 orang juga.

Saya menuliskan di blog saya ini, saya rasa yang membaca sudah lebih dari 3 orang. So amanah dari Bu Elly Risman sudah saya jalankan. Nah buat Anda yang sudah baca sampai sini, saya memberikan amanah kepada anda untuk meneruskannya lagi kepada minimal3 orang.

Boleh anda ceritakan dari satu mulut ke mulut, pajang di tautan facebook anda ( Di bawah ada tombol ” Share On facebook ” ), anda kirim ke email teman anda,  copy paste di blog anda. Kalau anda mau copy paste bulet bulet di blog anda  juga gak papa. Anda cantumkan sumber dan linknya ya bagus. Gak mencantumkan juga gak papa.

Yang penting pengetahuan ini bisa tersebar kepada seluruh penduduk Indonesia. Mari bersama – sama berjuang untuk melawan pornografi yang sedang merebak di negeri kita ini. Dari diri kita, anak – anak kita, untuk sekitar dan teman – teman kita. Dan untuk negera kita tercinta.

P.S: Kalau bagi Anda, artikel ini termasuk berkualitas, jangan lupa untuk baca artikel ini: “Mengapa Bangsa Yahudi Bisa Sedemikian Pintarnya? Mari Kita Ikuti“, Saya yakin kualitasnya tidak kalah jauh dengan kualitas artikel ini 

Thank you for being my friends

I'm supposed to sleep this night after I have a hard day, but I really like this day. Because of that, i want to write every event that i did it, there are three important events that i divided : slept in 3 hours, arabic test, and 2 friends of mine. Nevertheless, sometimes God will give you funny and happy things after you have a hard day, yup! it is happened to me.

Every Moslem in this world, they are very happy when the Ramadhan month comes. In the Ramadhan month, we have fasting, and before fasting in the night we must pray Tarawih after that at 3.00 o'clock until before pray subuh we have to eat (Sahur). Logicaly, it will garnishee our sleep time, but I don't know why, and especially for me, I love to do it. Because of I read some books, there are so many beneficial to do fasting. Ok, back to the story! in the 8th night of the Ramadhan, i can't sleep until 1.30 am, and i must wake up at least before 4.30 am to have to eat, so i woke up at 3.30 am.So, it means i only had 2 hours for sleeping. After just slept only 2 hours, i can't sleep again until 10 O'clock, then i slept in an hour after that i must go to collage.

this is friday, and every male person of moslem has to pray friday in the day. Maybe because i slept only 3 hours, i can't see a thing in the clear way, its like blur. why i explain it first? because i have to go to collage because the arabic test, and i can't see clearly what the time an arabic test will be started, i guest it will be started at 12.30, but in fact it started at 13.30. Yup! i early to come, never mind, better than if i being late. I calculated the time at first before i go to collage, if i pray friday in the mosque that near my house, i will be late to the arabic test because the test will be started at 12.30. I suggest to all of you, don't try this at home. oh yaa, i forget something to explain, i have to explain what the arabic test first. the arabic test is similar Toefl test, it has also listening and so on. because of i have a lack knowledgement about an arabic language, so you can guess what happen in the arabic test, i already fill all of answer sheets before i read the questions.

After i finished my test, i have to pick up someone in another place, at least it spent 30 until 45 minutes from my test place to the place where i have to pick up someone by motorcycle, and if there is no trafic. so you can imagine how far it is. After that we must to her place, before that i have to face with jakarta's trafic jam, yup! it is nuts. after we arrived, there are many happy and fun things, Thank you very much to my God (Allah SWT). But i will not to tell how fun it is. the important is I'm so happy.

Sovereignty in the International Politics

Jean Bodin defined sovereignty as unlimited power over citizens and subjects, unrestrained by law. This power, he instead, is by its nature absolute, unqualified, perpetual, and indivisible and reside not in the whole state but in the body of the citizenry in a democracy, in the estate of the nobility in an aristocracy, and  in the person of the king in a monarchy. Rulers rule by divine right but are subject to the laws of God, of nature, and of nations and also to constitutionalism. These limitations upon supreme power, however, are ethical rather than legal or political (quoted by Schuman 1969).

Johannes Althusius, defined sovereignty as the highest and most general power of administering the affairs which generally concern the safety and welfare of the soul and body of the members of the state. Grotius defined sovereignty as the power whose acts are not subject to the control of another, so that they may be made void by the act any other human will (quoted by Schuman 1969).


K.J. Holsti (2004) argued, sovereignty can divide the sovereignty concept into two components: those rules and norms that constitute states (defining the players of the game), and those that regulate how states relate to each other (rules of the game). Sovereignty is a foundational institution of international relations because it is the critical component of the birth, maintenance, and  death of states. The external aspect of sovereignty is that the state has constitutional independence. It is not legally subject to any external authority. in waltz's terms, the state decides for itself how it will cope with its internal and external problems, including whether or not to seek assistance from others... State develop their own strategies, chart their own courses, make their own decisions about how to meet whatever needs they experience and whatever desire they develop. If a state declares this as a right, it implies that it must recognize as legally equal those who claim similar rights. I cannot claim a right to exist as a sovereign person unless I am willing to concede the some right to my neighbors and associates. Sovereignty defines the essential characteristics of the relations between the actors, namely that no actor has a right to command others, and that none has the obligation to obey. In a technical sense, we call this anarchy ( no government). It means that all agreements and rules between states have to be based on consent.

Cronyism

Neoclassical economic theory assumes that the institutional framework - the legal, political, and informational aspects of an economy -  is given. In a neoclassical world contracts are costlessly and immediately enforced, property rights are secure, and any initial distribution of resources can be voluntarily bargained over and exchange in order to maximaze efficiency. Thus built into the model is the idea that any government intervention must be deleterious, since it involves a move away from a perfect market. However, once the idea of an undistorted initial period is questioned, much of the distinction between profit and rent-seeking may involve fights over the distribution of rents and may not necessarily involve inefficient dissipation.

In contrast, transaction cost economics emphasizes that the creation, monitoring, and enforcement of long-term agreements are inherently impossible and therefore long-term or iterated exchange is risky. Transaction cost analysis thus examines the search for institutions that reduce the costs of exchange, since institutions evolve to minimize transaction costs. Closely related themes are property rights, informational asymmetries, and principal-agent models. In this world, a high performance economy is one in which institutions minimize transaction costs, property rights are secure, information is common or at least relatively public, and judicial and political rights are immutable. These conditions are not met in most developing countries. Coercion and uncertainly are both central to politics and economics and also intensify an actor's fear regarding potential expropriation, opportunism, and shirking. The scarch for institutions and methods by which actors can credibly engage in cooperative behavior is thus central aim of the new institutional economics.

Cronyism

The perspective of the new institutional economics is particularly useful in understanding cronysim, a blanket term that refers to a number of related concepts: family and personal realtions, bribery and corruption, patron-client relations, and collusion. In some cases cronysim involves political factions, groups, or informal networks, while in others it involves clans, families, or social groups. Cronyism is often seen as deleterious to economic growth because it implies decisions based on nonmarket principles, increases transaction costs, impedes efficiency, involves rent-seeking, distorts economic incentives, and makes exchange between actors more difficult. In most instances reliance on personal relations is detrimental to economic efficiency.

However, personal realtions sometimes enhance efficiency. Where legal, political, and economic institutions are weak, as in most developing countries, information about market conditions and possibilities is both scarce and difficult to obtain, and investments and property rights may be insecure. Long-term commitments of any sort are more difficult, because political and economic conditions and actors can change rapidly. Capital markets do not function as effectively in developing countries, and political and economic decision making is subject to greater uncertainty than in developed systems. For businessmen and politicians, the transaction costs of making and keeping agreements and securing property rights can be prohibitively high. Absent some enforcement mechanism, parties may be reluctant to enter into long-term relationship.

Under these conditions, cronysim can reduce transaction costs, because actors have deep and enduring contact with and knowledge of each other and are able to make nuanced judgments about each other's credibility and integrity. Monitoring is also easier, because all parties know each other and actors with long-term, close, and overlapping personal ties can sanction each other and spread information more easily. It is not true that, if long-run gains are uncertain, actors look myopically to the short run. Rather, they attempt to craft alternatives that will add some predictability and stability, often by relying on personal relations. In addition, bribes are marely tranfers. The relevant question is whether the resources will be put to more productive use by the bribe giver or the bribe taker.

Thus, cronyism can lead to better information, monitoring, and sanctioning, can strengthen property rights, and can provide alternative means of reciprocity and side payments. Within a well-defined set of actors cronyism may reduce transaction costs across the broad. Since institutions are weak and property rights fluid, confidence in exchange and agreements can be imbued only through other relationships. Under what conditions does cronyism lower rather than raise transaction costs?

reference:
David C. Kang, Transaction Costs and Crony Capitalism in East Asia, Comparative Poltics Vol. 35 No. 4 (July, 2003)

Dwifungsi and Legislative Seats

Through its doctrine of dwifungsi (dual function), the military has played a dominant role in national affairs. In recent years, however, dwifungsi has come under open question. It is indeed a sign of the times that the principal icon of the military, long unchallenged, has come under scrutiny. In the past, the issue was canvassed by some prominent but retired "dissident" generals like Lieutenant-General (ret.) Dharsono and Ali Sadikin and a few critical intellectuals like Arief Budiman. All called for the abolition of dwifungsi.

Such questioning of dwifungsi as lobbieb by marginalized dissidents has been confined to the outskirts of the polity arena but in June the critical line was crossed for the first time in a major political institution, the Dewan Perwakilan Rakyat (DPR or Parliament) where two academics, Miriam Budiarjo and Arbit Sanit, told a parliamentary hearing that the military's role in Parliament was no longer relevant and that a phased reduction in military's 100-seat allocation should begin. This would enhance the development of democratic institutions in Indonesia, they said. Their call prompted a response from Benny Murdani who told the same hearing that those calling for a reduction of military's role lacked understanding of its dwifungsi.

The discussion of the issue moved to an even higher level during Soeharto's National Day address. While paying heed to the Armed Forces as being "responsible for the life of our nation", he went on to add that the military's 100 nominees to the DPR/MPR "may be adjusted according to the prevailing situation". He said that a resolution of the matter could be reached through a national consensus following the formation of the next government when the MPR session met in March 1993. Whether that will be followed through remains to be seen but some analysts saw Soeharto's offer as a thinly-veiled threat to the military that they would have their parliamentary wings clipped if their support for his candidacy was not forthcoming. At that time ABRI had not yet made any formal declaration in favour of Soeharto's renomination. They only did so more than a month later on the night of 29 September when General Try Sutrisno announced their decision to support Soeharto during a meeting with military appointees to the DPR/MPR.

reference:
Tan Chee Leng, Indonesia in 1992: Anticipating Another Soeharto Term, Institute of Southeast Asian Studies (ISEAS), 1993